Authentic Loving | happiness come with relations ..

Sometime you have to make some plans to make your friendship a long term friendship , first of all I would like to elucidate about friendship a bit , according to me friendship is nothing it’s just the game of give and take . In this fast growing world everyone need some company to solve their matters directly or indirectly . For this friendship always works !

Some guys could have different thinking about friendship but I am talking practical - In practical life things are not that simple , like when you are in school you get friends there who belong to the same school , then after that when you get promote to college you change your friends circle and get new friends there - then after you go to university you get new friends there and you try to pass your time with them . Then after that when you come to professional life you find professional people there who are bit different from your college or university friends - there you make efforts to make good & long lasting friends because at every moment you will be looking for some help from them .

So, the problem is sometime your friends may get angry and don’t want to talk to you even then you want to make that friendship successful , so you try again and again to get back that friend , now the question is how to get your ex boyfriend back ? - well the answer is quite simple , if you are not involved in some bad things like bad relation with another boy friend or something like that and your ex boy friend is angry just because of small issue then you can get your boyfriend back by just doing some tricks like send him expensive gifts because everyone is materialistic and everyone like gifts , one day he will definitely come back to you - I’m sure about it !

Relationship is not just the sign on marriage paper but it’s the relation between two souls which is made strong with the chain of love . Some people says that love which is made before marriage comes to an end after the marriage while the love which is made after the marriage (arranged marriage) remain for lifetime . I think this is not true , we can’t impose the result of some broken relationships upon all successful relationships .

I believe in love and I’ll only marry with the girl whom I love . For this I sometime search different dating site where I can find my perfect match – now a days the concept of arrange marriages have been dissolved and now it’s the season of love . Girls and boys all want a perfect match for themselves and for this they want a small duration of time before the marriage so that they can know about on another completely .

For this dating & social networking sites are doing a great job – in fact most of the people now rely on these dating sites , because it’s the easiest way to find millions of friends online and if you like that friend then you can give that relation a new name anytime .

Sometime relations cross it’s boundary and need some other name of commitment , there comes the concept of divorce . Divorce is the law which is used to separate husband and wife . I don’t like this divorce thing , I mean it should not be there because it is used to separate husband and wife which is not a good thing – but there comes lots of turns in life and sometime your partner want to get rid of your company and want freedom for himself/herself .Though I don’t like this divorce thing but it’s a good thing for those whose husband/wife is not good and they don’t want to prolong their relation anymore and in this case divorce law provide them the authentic freedom .No argue on the statement that whether Divorce is a good thing or bad thing , the real thing is that whether it brings happiness in your life or not – if it’s good for you then go for it otherwise giving another chance to relation is not a bad idea .

Marriage is not the game of just one day but it’s the commitment of lifetime and one who don’t qualify for maintaining strong relation and couldn’t meet the requirements of their partner should not deserve anything , in fact these kind of people need to be put in jail !

Sometime there are people who don’t want to give divorce to their partner and for this they annoy their partner and for some reason try to misuse the relation – for this kind of people I would say that they are really sick people with sick mind , because they don’t know that now a days there are lots of NGO’s and other women rights organization working for this kind of issues and apart from that there are lots of Divorce Tips available on internet which give you the direction and which bring you the real essence of life !