Authentic Loving | happiness come with relations ..

Being as a lady I think that female sacrifice lots of things after the marriage , I have studied lots of books related the successful marriage stories and how to make them successful , I didn’t concentrate only on local authors but I also studied lots of books from the Asian side . As I have a deep relation with the Asian Counties that’s why I studied their culture like how they like , how they marry , how they keep their children , how they happily pass their hole life ? all of these question were exotic for me but now after a deep study I am able to blog about it .

I get married about 19 years ago and I have my own experience regarding parenting and the marriage life . I live in Canada that’s why my personal experience is related to Canadian local .

Whether it’s Canada or Asia , one thing is forsure and that is the sacrifice , Mom has to sacrifice all the things for their babies because our children are your backbone so you should make them strong and strong !

I have noticed one that female life has completely change after the marriage and female have to go through a lot of phases during parenting . After the marriage she has to sacrifice all the things for her husband and after the birth of her children she has to sacrifice all the things for her chick !

This is what a sacrifice at each stage . I don’t know why this kind of sacrifice is not made for the males . Males are bit relaxed about the parenting of their children and that’s the reason why children love their mother more than they love their father !

So what happened actually after my marriage was that my wife accidently got some injuries on face and I was really hating that marks on her face but I am thankful to the plastic surgery technology which recovered my wife look . We got a good treatment in Chirurgie Esthetique Montreal and we are really satisfied with their efforts !

Sometime relations cross it’s boundary and need some other name of commitment , there comes the concept of divorce . Divorce is the law which is used to separate husband and wife . I don’t like this divorce thing , I mean it should not be there because it is used to separate husband and wife which is not a good thing – but there comes lots of turns in life and sometime your partner want to get rid of your company and want freedom for himself/herself .Though I don’t like this divorce thing but it’s a good thing for those whose husband/wife is not good and they don’t want to prolong their relation anymore and in this case divorce law provide them the authentic freedom .No argue on the statement that whether Divorce is a good thing or bad thing , the real thing is that whether it brings happiness in your life or not – if it’s good for you then go for it otherwise giving another chance to relation is not a bad idea .

Marriage is not the game of just one day but it’s the commitment of lifetime and one who don’t qualify for maintaining strong relation and couldn’t meet the requirements of their partner should not deserve anything , in fact these kind of people need to be put in jail !

Sometime there are people who don’t want to give divorce to their partner and for this they annoy their partner and for some reason try to misuse the relation – for this kind of people I would say that they are really sick people with sick mind , because they don’t know that now a days there are lots of NGO’s and other women rights organization working for this kind of issues and apart from that there are lots of Divorce Tips available on internet which give you the direction and which bring you the real essence of life !