Authentic Loving | happiness come with relations ..

As we see now a days people spend hundreds of thousand dollars on wedding ceremonies just to make it a rememberable event . In fact there are lots of people who don’t have enough resources for such functions even then they take loans from banks to make their marriage ceremonies one of the best event on earth . Perhaps you might have seen people discussing this kind of issue on social bookmarking sites .

In this critical situation I would like to add some content – my idea is to spend money in the marriage ceremony but not in a traditional way , I mean there should be some change , Like what I have done in my own marriage ceremony . I would like to add my marriage criteria here ..

As I was doing service in Ericsson and I didn’t had a family backup that’s why I had to arrange all the things myself , I was on budget those days that’s why I didn’t organize a big function for my marriage but to make my marriage a rememberable event I had to do something which leave a dark impression on the people I had invited . For this I designed one unique and expensive invitation card sample for my wedding and then printed several copies . That wedding card was unique and people still remember that card lol . So, you need to do that kind of tricks to make good deals in limited budget .

People says that child name somehow decide the destiny of that child , I think it’s true – let throw some light on this topic , I have one relative whose name was Hasnain when he was a baby and he had faced lots of accidents in the childhood , then parents of husnain took him to some Mullah of that time , the old Mulah suggested the parents to change his name as this name don’t suits with this guy .

Upon this suggestion his parents replaced his name by Sikandar and then everything settled down . Now this guy is no problem and he is living very peacefully – I mean to say that your name has a large impact on your future and parents should take care while finding name for their babies.

A good name is one which is meaningful and which make some sense – there are some idiots who don’t even check their baby name meaning before fixing it for permanently and after years of time when they come to know about their baby name meaning then it’s too late for amendments .

So, the good step is to first check your baby name which is unique and meaningful – in fact you should make a list of good and unique name and after that you should that Baby Names which are having some good meaning – last decision should be to select one which best suits your baby !

Relationship is not just the sign on marriage paper but it’s the relation between two souls which is made strong with the chain of love . Some people says that love which is made before marriage comes to an end after the marriage while the love which is made after the marriage (arranged marriage) remain for lifetime . I think this is not true , we can’t impose the result of some broken relationships upon all successful relationships .

I believe in love and I’ll only marry with the girl whom I love . For this I sometime search different dating site where I can find my perfect match – now a days the concept of arrange marriages have been dissolved and now it’s the season of love . Girls and boys all want a perfect match for themselves and for this they want a small duration of time before the marriage so that they can know about on another completely .

For this dating & social networking sites are doing a great job – in fact most of the people now rely on these dating sites , because it’s the easiest way to find millions of friends online and if you like that friend then you can give that relation a new name anytime .

Sometime relations cross it’s boundary and need some other name of commitment , there comes the concept of divorce . Divorce is the law which is used to separate husband and wife . I don’t like this divorce thing , I mean it should not be there because it is used to separate husband and wife which is not a good thing – but there comes lots of turns in life and sometime your partner want to get rid of your company and want freedom for himself/herself .Though I don’t like this divorce thing but it’s a good thing for those whose husband/wife is not good and they don’t want to prolong their relation anymore and in this case divorce law provide them the authentic freedom .No argue on the statement that whether Divorce is a good thing or bad thing , the real thing is that whether it brings happiness in your life or not – if it’s good for you then go for it otherwise giving another chance to relation is not a bad idea .

Marriage is not the game of just one day but it’s the commitment of lifetime and one who don’t qualify for maintaining strong relation and couldn’t meet the requirements of their partner should not deserve anything , in fact these kind of people need to be put in jail !

Sometime there are people who don’t want to give divorce to their partner and for this they annoy their partner and for some reason try to misuse the relation – for this kind of people I would say that they are really sick people with sick mind , because they don’t know that now a days there are lots of NGO’s and other women rights organization working for this kind of issues and apart from that there are lots of Divorce Tips available on internet which give you the direction and which bring you the real essence of life !